As Flat Shoe Lovers, I Am Sure We Can Totally LOL At These Walks

Post by Aditi Kaushal.

Can Flat Shoes Be Sexy?

Dear Flat-Shoe-Lovers,

Well, here is the golden question... Can your flat shoes be sexy?

As you all know, I can't wear heels very well. I'm comfortable at 4cm, but anything beyond that, I can't wear them for daily wear. I teach 6 hours regularly, and even on days when I don't teach, I walk a lot. So, comfort comes first when looking for shoes.

On rare occasions, I might wear a 6~7cm wedges but I would die if I wore that for any longer than 3 hours straight. I sincerely do not know how other women wear heels for work shoes!

Having said that, and having *declared* myself, as a Flat-Shoe-Gal, I've wondered if flat shoes can still have a little bit of those sexy qualities that 'heeled shoes' almost always have. :)

Today, I reveal to you some great sexy smexy flats, that can make any flat-shoe-loving fashionista could ask for!

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1. From my personal research into Sexy Flat Shoes, I've found that yes, as long as the toes are pointy and not rounded, they can still look quite sexy.

Caption: Sexy pointed, fitted flats... in a trendy bright color.

2. Following that logic, pointy shoes that have tassels on them which are a tad more traditional and classic, CAN look sexy especially if they are patent leather, because the glossiness helps reduce the too-dowdy feeling! :D

Caption: Sexy pointed, tasseled flats, with lots of GLOSS factor.

3. Ferragamo baby~!! Well, I'm not a huge fan of ribbons or bows, they can look too cute and childlike... But, if the bow is not too rounded, not too feminine, like these flat rectangular shaped, modern looking ones, I guess, you could wear them well with all sorts of outfits, both casual and formal. Note again, that the toes are pointy.

Caption: Ferragamo inspired bow-tied loafers with a pointy toe.

4. Then come the ankle straps! I think these pointy-toe flats with ankle straps are the latest HITS in my city, Seoul, Korea. I'm seeing so many of these this season. Must be the 'Star Product' they're pushing for this year! I see them in all kinds of fabrics and colors too. I really like this one in particular because it is more subtle in color; because you must watch out and make sure your legs don't look shorter from the straps visually cutting across your legs horizontally...

Caption: Sexy pointed, diagonally cut flats with ankle straps in a neutral multi-grain color.

5. Here are a similar pointy-toed, ankle-strapped flats, but with the sides of you feet exposed... I guess these can't really be worn once the weather gets really chilly, but you could probably wear them again in Spring...

Caption: Sexy pointed, fitted flats, with ankle straps, and exposed sides.

6. Metallic gold ankle straps! Yes! Red shoes! Yes! I couldn't find a picture of a sexier cut of these shoes in red... The sides of the shoe aren't cut sexy enough and add bulk to your feet shape, but I love the color combination here, with the extra glam touch on the ankles. :) The gold strap really kicks it up a notch~!! Such perfect party shoes~!!

Caption: Sexy red flats with metallic gold ankle-straps...

7. Finally, the *studded affairs*... These glossy pink shoes with gold square studs are totally glam affairs~!! Instant pizzazz to your outfit~!!

Caption: Sexy glossy pink flats with gold studs all around...

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Well, well, well... There you have it~*

Sexy flats that take you places, in both comfort AND lots of personality~!!

I hope you enjoyed these lovely flats...

And I wish you a happy shoe-journey, this Fall :)

xoxo

MarsGirl FlatShoenista

New Blog Address!!! :D [flatshoenista.blogspot.com]

Hi everyone!!

I've just updated my blog's address~~~!!!

Please note my new URL~!!

flatshoenista.blogspot.com

Thank you!! :-D

xoxo

BlackHair FlatShoenista

Birth of a Flat-shoe-nista~!!! Sob - sob - sob - Yar~!!! :D

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So. Here's the thing.

The thing is,

That I can't wear anything

Higher than 4cm...

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That's right.

I just can't do them.

My knees are weird, whenever I wear shoes

Over the 4cm limit, they just stick out

Like sore thumb or whatever...

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And given my current job,

And also my physical inability,

I shall never be able to handle the above

4cm-heels.

Not even platforms.

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S i g h .

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My friends, and this is numerous friends...

They wear heels like it is nothing!

I don't know how or why, or where the

Difference is!

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But it is the reality.

Same with hair.

Much as I admire nicely coiffed, blow-dried & styled hair,

It is just near impossible for me.

The ONLY time that my hair looks that nice

Is the day that I go to the hairdresser's.

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So, what now?

I obviously will never be able to do a

Dita Von Teese look, or any Bombshell look.

It's too uncomfortable.

I mean, I am just going to be wearing FLAT SHOES

till the day I die...!

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So, that's what my REALITY is going to be.

And has in fact, always been.

All of my high heels, anything over 4cm,

have always stayed inside my shoe cabinets.

Except for that one special pair, that I used to

wear when I was in grad school.

But even then, I could only wear it on half days...

And with great pain to contend with,

at the end of the day...

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So, good bye sexy shoes...

And ALL of the 'Looks' and 'Outfits' that require

and belong in the 'Realm' of the 'Stilettos' and possibly even 'Pumps.'

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The only thing I can ever amount to,

is to be a Flat-shoe-nista.

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Sob sob sob

*slow claps*

xoxo

Jessica, Flatshoenista

What Is Your Personal Style? A Great Quiz To Find Out~!! Yes!! Finally~!!

OK! So I am between fashion systems and totally feeling the blah! I found a neat little fashion quiz, and can't wait to share it with you~!

Mine was Natural style, with a bit of Sexy style!

I'm so utterly happy to have these style keywords to work with~*

Go here!! Now~~!!!

http://imageconsultants.myprivatestylist.com/your-style-expression/

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Love,

xoxo

Jessica

Fashion Inspiration ::: 9 year old girl designs her Freetoes, socks for her flip flops !!!

This video is a MUST-SEE!
I think this is just so inspiring...

A young girl created her own fashion company, designing and selling toe-less socks!
All this, because her mom wouldn't allow her to wear her flip-flops without socks, and the girl wore socks, but cut off the toes!

Here is Cecilia's website: http://www.freetoes.com/collections/all

Anyway, sharing is caring ~ ♥ ♥ ♥

I wish you a fashiony, inspiring, delightful day !!

xoxo

Jessica

Your Instant Style Formula: Repeat Your Hair Color

image source: http://www.ireneeonline.com/com1_hair.htm

So currently this is how I feel about my wardrobe!

Too much color! @_@~~

And Irenee Riter, the author of website calls this phenomenon the "Scrambled Ladies." And I think this is the #1 cause I feel dissatisfied with my current wardrobe... 

See how put together everyone looks!!

As Brenda Kinsel and David Zyla both mentioned in their books, repeating your hair, eye, skin color can really help you save $$$ and look stylish! Like your INSTANT STYLE FORMULA! But they didn't have these awesome genius pictures in their books... lol~

So following Riter's advice, I think my next step in wardrobe refinement is to make sure that I have decent quality...

• pants
• shoes
• belts
• sweaters
• purses

in my hair color.

I really think her information is top notch... She really understands color and its relational values. She goes way beyond the basic "You are an autumn so wear autumn colors" approach which is so rampant in the fashion and image consulting business these days. She explains how color behaves in really easy to understand terms, and in my humble opinion, takes the properties of color to the Einsteinian Level that it deserves to be!!!

In this picture, she explains how the same burgundy color acts differently with your hair color. This also finally demystified how so many of my dark colored clothing items were nearly always my fall backs, without making me look overpowered; the wines, the browns, navy's, and dark grays!

And here's another image from her site on how to wear your contrast levels for specific colors. So as a general rule, people with higher contrast levels in their hair VS skintone look better with higher contrast in what they wear, people with lower contrast levels do better with less contrast in what they wear. 

This image shows how great she looks just by repeating her hair and eye colors!

And this shows how picture frames also look better when they repeat your hair colors.

Both women wear busy ribbon-patterned tops, but you can see how the lady in the right looks much more put together as the pattern repeats the colors in her hair.

 Now, below are some photos of women who look GREAT wearing White + Hair color. I think this is fundamentally where Carol Tuttle and her Dressing Your Truth program go WRONG in their approach to color guide for women. She tells women that unless you're a Type 4 woman you should avoid both White and Black. Irenee Riter in her website says unless you're a Winter person, you CAN wear white or black, BUT NOT BOTH at the same time. I think the images below more than prove how women of all season and type CAN wear white successfully when they combine it with their hair color!

I think that telling people to wear only the colors that you see on your season's palette is grossly misleading. Because colors vibrate differently when they come into contact with each other, you need to calculate the end result that you want. It is easy in my opinion to end up looking dowdy or boring if you tried to ONLY wear your own body colors OR ONLY wear the colors in your season's palette. 

What a lot of fashion, color, and image consultants forget to take into account is the environment you live in and the role that you play in your life as well. And the following are how I feel after trying to follow their advice:

a) The problem of only wearing colors located in your body will restrict you too much and make your shopping experience really hard. If I were to try and follow that rule, I would probably have to tailor all my clothes and custom design all my bags and shoes!

b) Depending on the region you live in, a lot of the style preferences and fashion do's and don'ts won't work for you. If you live in a cosmopolitan area some of the approaches and style strategies that are suggested to you won't work. Urban taste runs different to more rural taste, etc. Also the regional culture you inhabit dictate certain rules that are worth following; I happen to come from an Asian culture, and a Confucianist family at that, where blending in and harmonizing with your community at large is much more important than it would be in any Western country!

c) Certain jobs or important life roles will also dictate what style strategy you will employ. Fashion IS communication after all. But dressing for your job may be just something you have to work with; if you are in a teaching job for instance it comes with the territory that you curb a little on your bling bling and skin-revealing tendencies etc. Also if you are a mother or you are caring for your aging parents, or you have a boyfriend, all those factors will ALSO determine what clothes you wear and how you wear them. 

d) The climate you live in, how much travelling you do, and how you commute is something you can't ignore. How much your body can tolerate in terms of heat, light, moisture, air pressure ALL play into how you want to go about choosing your garments.

e) How you like to do your laundry as well as how you like to organize your wardrobe, how much professional help you get with your hair and nail care are other things that play into how you manage your style strategy!

Anyhow, I digress a little. I just wanted to share how amazing the Irenee Riter website is! Although some of the pictures do seem way outdated! Aesthetic preferences change over time, and also within regions, and personal preferences... but I thought compared to a lot of the other materials I've seen, it is very well thought-out and for the most part a very very smart and sensible approach to clothes!

I particularly enjoyed how she actually included different strategies for different seasons! As you can see in the picture below, the same Winter woman "usually" will wear more darker colors for Winter, and wear more lighter colors for Summer!

OK. So well, to summarize... and if you ARE convinced of Irenee Riter's strategy... you can find out your hair color and eye color, as well as skintone... and get started on creating your INSTANT STYLE FORMULA!!!

Know Your INSTANT STYLE FORMULA

Step 1: Determine your hair color. Repeat your hair color for all your basic wardrobe items:  tops, bottoms, bag, shoes, belts.

Step 2: Find your eye color. This can be your secondary color for your wardrobe.

Step 3: Know your skintone. Your skintone can be the connecting color in your patterns or parts of your clothing/accessory items.

Thanks for reading!
Have a great time strategically streamlining your wardrobe!


Wishing you health, beauty, ease, and great style~~

Love,

Jessica




PS. My basic message for this post mostly comes from this page:
http://www.ireneeonline.com/com1_hair.htm

If you want to know more, go to Irenee Riter's website here:
http://www.ireneeonline.com/index.htm
and explore the vast wealth of resources!